Victim Bullies - RonaldMah

Ronald Mah, M.A., Ph.D.
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist,
Consultant/Trainer/Author
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Victims, Abusers/Bullies, & Survivors
The Dynamics of Self-Esteem in Aggression and/or Violence

dvd of this workshop available at
www.FixedEarthFilms.com

OVERVIEW: This workshop makes the connections between aggression, violence, and self-esteem as they develop in children. The developmental processes of the victim, abuser/bully, and survivor are discussed with reference to parenting styles, both positive and problematic. Methods are presented to build self-esteem in children and to protect them from becoming abusers/bullies and/or victims. The 90 Second-A-Day Child Self-Esteem Prescription Plan brings together these principles in simple but powerful interactions between adults and children.

1) WHAT'S IMPORTANT ABOUT SELF-ESTEEM?
  • Abusers, Victims, Watchers (peer bullies), Survivors, and Activists

2) VIOLENCE as BULLYING
  • Repetition, Aggression, Negative Intent, and Power Difference
  • Behavior, Verbalization To, and Verbalization About
  • RELATIONAL AGGRESSION (gender differences)

3) WHAT IS SELF-ESTEEM MADE UP OF?
  • ACCEPTANCE, POWER & CONTROL, MORAL VIRTUE, & COMPETENCE

4) ABUSERS & BULLIES in terms of VIOLENCE/AGGRESSION
  • and the Search for Acceptance, Power & Control, Moral Virtue, & Competence
  • Problems; Causes, Characteristics
  • THE COERCION PARENTING MODEL
  • NONCONTINGENT PARENTING
  • RELATIONAL AGGRESSION
  • THE REACTIVE BULLY- Both Bully & Victim

5) VICTIMS in terms of VIOLENCE/AGGRESSION
  • and the Search for Acceptance, Power & Control, Moral Virtue, & Competence
  • ANXIOUS VULNERABILITY
  • NON-CONFLICT SUBMISSIVENESS

6) SURVIVORS in terms of VIOLENCE/AGGRESSION
  • and the Search for Acceptance, Power & Control, Moral Virtue, & Competence
  • VERBAL FLUENCY

7) WHERE & HOW IS SELF-ESTEEM (victims and bullies) CREATED?

8) HOW TO BUILD SELF-ESTEEM
  • AS AN ALTERNATIVE TO VIOLENCE (BULLY/ABUSER)
  • AS PREVENTION OF VICTIMIZATION
  • TO CREATE SURVIVORS
ADDRESS:
433 Estudillo Ave., #305
San Leandro, CA 94577-4915
Ronald Mah, M.A., Ph.D.
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT32136
CONTACT INFORMATION:
phone: (510) 614-5641
fax: (510) 889-6553
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